When traveling alone, think of train rides as an opportunity to meet people.

Cameras can help break the ice (while bypassing language barriers).

Too many people who put off their travel dreams because they don’t want to do it by themselves: The prospect of going alone sounds either too daunting or just not all that fun. If you want to travel overseas but don’t have a partner, consider gathering the courage to go alone. You’ll meet plenty of people as you travel: Think of them as a montage of fun, temporary travel partners.

By travelling alone you’ll learn a lot about yourself and how to become independent. It’s a cliché, but it’s true. Traveling solo teaches you how to fend for yourself, talk to people, and handle unfamiliar situations with ease. It makes you comfortable with yourself, helps you learn about what you are capable of, and allows you to be super selfish and do whatever you want! It can take some getting used to if you’ve never done it before but do it at least once. Make yourself uncomfortable and surprise yourself. You’ll learn valuable life skills when you push yourself!

Traveling solo has its pros and cons. When you’re on your own, you’re independent and in control. You can travel at your own pace, do the things that interest you eat where and when you like, and splurge where you want to splurge. You don’t have to wait for your partner to pack up, and you never need to negotiate where to eat or when to call it a day. You go where you want, when you want, and you can get the heck out of that stuffy museum when all the Monets start to blur together. If ad-libbing, it’s easier for one person to slip between the cracks than two.

Of course, there are downsides to traveling alone: When you’re on your own, you don’t have a built-in dining companion. You’ve got no one to send ahead while you wait in line, help you figure out the bus schedule, or commiserate with when things go awry. And traveling by yourself is usually more expensive. With a partner, hotel accommodations cost less because they’re shared. Other things become cheaper too when you’re splitting costs, such as groceries, guidebooks, taxis, storage lockers, and more.

But when you travel with someone else, it’s natural to focus on your partner — how you’re getting along, whether she meant it when she said she wasn’t hungry — and tune out the symphony of sights, sounds, and smells all around you. Traveling on your own allows you to be more present and open to your surroundings. You’ll meet more people — you’re seen as more approachable. You’re more likely to experience the kindness of strangers.

Solo travel is intensely personal. You can discover more about yourself at the same time you’re discovering more about the places you traveled so far to visit. Traveling on your own is fun, challenging, vivid, and exhilarating. Realizing that you have what it takes to be your own guide is a thrill known only to solo travelers. Your trip is a gift from you to you.

Traveling Alone Without Feeling Lonely

For many people contemplating their first solo trip, loneliness is their biggest fear. Big cities can be cold and ugly when the only person to talk to is yourself. And being sick and alone in a country where no one knows you can be a sad and miserable experience.

Fortunately, combating loneliness is easy in places popular with travelers. Every country is full of travelers and natural meeting places, especially in peak season. And the internet offers ever-increasing avenues for connecting with locals eager to welcome you to their home turf.

Meeting People

You’ll run across vaga-buddies every day. If you stay in hostels, you’ll have a built-in family (plenty of hostels are comfortable and welcoming to people of all ages). Or choose small pensions and B&Bs, where the owners and fellow guests sharing breakfast have time to talk. At most tourist sights, you’ll meet more people in an hour than you would at home in a day. If you’re feeling shy, cameras are good icebreakers, even in our selfie era — offer to take someone’s picture with his or her camera.

Take a group walking tour of a city (check your guidebook or ask at the tourist office). You’ll learn about the town and meet other travelers, too. If you’re staying in a hostel, check its message board — some hostels arrange group tours.

It’s easy to meet people on buses and trains. When you meet locals who speak a language you know, find out what they think — about anything. Take your laundry and a deck of cards to a launderette and turn solitaire into gin rummy. You’ll end up with a stack of clean clothes and interesting conversations.

Learn how to say “pretty baby” in the local language. If you play peek-a-boo with a baby or fold an origami bird for a kid, you’ll make friends with the parents as well as the child.

Try meeting up with other solo travelers or with convivial locals through social media. Use your social media connections to find out if anyone has friends or family in the destinations that you’ll be visiting, then drop them a note about your upcoming trip. Consider joining a hospitality-exchange network, which can help you find events and free accommodations. Facebook’s events listings are as popular abroad as they are at home. Like-minded individuals can also find one another on Meetup, whose worldwide members welcome visitors to diverse events such as photography walks, happy hours, and weekend skiing.

If you’re shy, you might also consider an organized tour, where you can relinquish trip-planning to a well-seasoned guide and enjoy a built-in circle of fun travel partners.

Eating Out

Dining solo has become much more common and you’ll rarely stand out as you sit down alone at a restaurant. But some countries have special meals that are more fun to experience with others. You could invite someone to join you. Just say to someone whose company you might enjoy, “Would you like to meet up for dinner?”

If you’re feeling sociable, eat in places so crowded and popular that all the tables are shared, or ask other single travelers if they’d like to join you. Eat in the members’ kitchen of a hostel; you’ll always have companions. Make it a potluck.

If you prefer to eat alone, stay busy. Use the time to learn more of the language. Practice your verbal skills with the waiter or waitress. Do trip planning, draw in your journal, update your blog, or scrawl a few postcards to the folks back home.

Spending an afternoon at a café is a great way to get some writing done; for the cost of a beverage and a snack, you’ll be granted more peace and privacy than at a public fountain or other open space.

In the Evening

Experience the magic of cities at night, where city centers are largely safe and welcoming. Go for a walk along well-lit streets. With gelato in hand, enjoy the parade of people, busy shops, and illuminated monuments. You’ll invariably feel a sense of companionship when lots of people are around. Take advantage of the wealth of evening entertainment: concerts, movies, and dance performances. Some cities offer tours after dark: You can see Paris by night on a river cruise or take a ghost walk in London.

If you like to stay in at night, get a room with a balcony overlooking a square. You’ll have a front-row seat to the best show in town. Read novels set in the country you’re visiting. Post travel news to your friends and family so you’ll find friendly answers from another time zone in your notifications in the morning. Learn to treasure solitude. Go early to bed, be early to rise. Shop at a lively morning market for fresh rolls and join the locals for coffee.

Hostels welcome travelers of all ages and are in the business of renting out single bunks. Not only is this an affordable option, it’s an excellent way to meet others. Hostels also sometimes have private rooms, which may be cheaper than a single in a budget hotel.

All travelers should exercise common sense and caution when it comes to personal security abroad. For solo travelers, this means greater self-reliance and being particularly aware of your surroundings. (Of course, safety tends to be a bigger concern for women).

Use street smarts. Be well prepared so that you don’t need to depend on someone unless you want to — carry cash, a map, a guidebook, and a phrase book. Walk purposefully with your head up; look like you know where you’re going, even when you don’t. If you get lost in an unfriendly neighborhood, be savvy about whom you ask for help; seek out a police officer or a family, or go into a store or restaurant to ask for directions or to study your map.

Be proactive about public transportation. Use the same caution in taxis and on buses and subways that you would at home. Consider daytime departures and arrivals when you plan long-distance travel. You may want to visit the train or bus station the day before your departure, so you’ll know where it is, how long it takes to reach it, if it feels safe, and what services it has. Reconfirm your departure time. If you’re leaving late at night and the bus or train station is sketchy, hang out in your hotel’s lounge or in a café until you need to head for the station.

Unless you’re fluent in the language, you must accept the fact that you won’t always know what’s going on. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or clarification — you’ll often discover that the locals are looking out for you. However, a healthy dose of skepticism and an eagle eye in crowded and isolated places will help you stay safe.

Stay connected. Make it a habit to update family and friends back home about your itinerary. Talk over your plans with your hotelier before you head out, especially at night.

Trust your gut. If a situation or locale doesn’t feel right, leave. It is better to be safe than sorry.